The first day I met her, “beautiful” was the last thing on my mind. The dress she had on was terrible and her face told the same story. There was nothing more unattractive than a woman uncomfortable in her skin. Yet here I was, 10ft away from the most insecure woman in the room, in the ugliest pink dress – and I couldn’t take my eyes off her. She sat there staring down at her hands in her lap, and shifting in her seat. I thought about different ways to start a conversation bu